Thursday, November 11, 2010

Birthday party at k-room

Went to K-room to celebrate my jimui's birthday yesterday...
>>Hui Ling & Pui Yi<< Hui Ling's birthday : 22nd of November
Pui Yi's birthday : 25th of November

We celebrate earlier becoz by the time, we are having our STPM exam...
Everyone was overjoyed until they lost their voice,
included me ><"
Singing non-stop~
Took some group photos together...
Know what are we doing??
Borrow the cherries that belong to the cakes and act like we are gonna eat them...
haha=p
Actually was My idea!!
Not bad...^^

I went back earlier while they are still enjoying!!
Wish both of my dears Hapie Burfday....
ALL da best to them~

Friday, November 5, 2010

Happy Deepavali

Uncle Manjit (grey T-shirt) and his wife (stripe blouse)


Went to Uncle Manjit's house today,

he is my daddy's friend...
Visit him and his family and also to celebrate Deepavali...
Actually they aren't indian but singh~
Anyway they celebrate Deepavali like others...

His wife, we called her Aunty Kim, cooked a lot of delicious and spicy foods...
Although I'm still not yet recover from my sickness,
but I try some curry too...
Really tasty and I like it so so so Much!!!
Beside that, we also try some Charpatti, Parrata, Dhal, Murruku and many many more~
Eating non-stop!!!

Uncle Manjit and my daddy with some friends drink beers after they had their meal....
Have their man talk outside his garage...
While we have our woman talk inside his house~
Uncle's sons came for me and ask for my facebook address...
One is 17 and another one is 16 I think~
Both of them are so humorous...
Glad to have buddies like them,
at least they are almost same age as me and I won't feel bored~

Anyway, Wish them have a nice Diwali day...


Tuesday, November 2, 2010

父母最伟大

如果你在一個平凡的家庭長大,如果你的父母還健在,不管你有沒有和他們同住——

如果有一天,你發現媽媽的廚房不再像以前那麼乾淨;

如果有一天,你發現家中的碗筷好像沒洗乾淨;

如果有一天,你發現母親的鍋子不再雪亮;

如果有一天,你發現父親的花草樹木已漸荒廢;

如果有一天,你發現家中的地板衣櫃經常沾滿灰塵;

如果有一天,你發現母親煮的菜太鹹太難吃;

如果有一天,你發現父母經常忘記關瓦斯;

如果有一天,你發現老父老母的一些習慣不再是習慣時,就像他們不再想要天天洗澡時;

如果有一天,你發現父母不再愛吃青脆的蔬果;

如果有一天,你發現父母愛吃煮得爛爛的菜;

如果有一天,你發現父母喜歡吃稀飯;

如果有一天,你發現他們過馬路行動反應都慢了;

如果有一天,你發現在吃飯時間他們老是咳個不停,千萬別誤以為他們感冒或著涼,(那是吞嚥神經老化的現象) ;

如果有一天,你發覺他們不再愛出門……

如果有這麼一天,我要告訴你,你要警覺父母真的已經老了,器官已經退化到需要別人照料了。

如果你不能照料,請你替他們找人照料,並請你請你千萬千萬要常常探望,不要讓他們覺得被遺棄了。

每個人都會老,父母比我們先老,我們要用角色互換的心情去照料他,才會有耐心、才不會有怨言,當父母不能照顧自己的時候,為人子女要警覺,他們可能會大小 便失禁、可能會很多事都做不好,如果房間有異味,可能他們自己也聞不到,請不要嫌他臟或嫌他臭,為人子女的只能幫他清理,並請維持他們的“自尊心”。

當他們不再愛洗澡時,請抽空定期幫他們洗身體,因為縱使他們自己洗也可能洗不干淨。當我們在享受食物的時候,請替他們準備一份大小適當、容易咀嚼的一小碗,因為他們不愛吃可能是牙齒咬不動了。

從我們出生開始,餵奶換尿布、生病的不眠不休照料、教我們生活基本能力、供給讀書、吃喝玩樂和補習,關心和行動永遠都不停歇。如果有一天,他們真的動不了了,角色互換不也是應該的嗎?

為人子女者要切記,看父母就是看自己的未來,孝順要及時。

樹欲靜而風不止、子欲養而親不在

你留意過自己的父母嗎?